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Featured Blog Post: Stop Letting Social Media Ruin Your Love Life

Social Media. We wouldn't ever want to live without it, but it's way too easy to let it ruin your dating life and relationships.

Cyber stalking, obsessing, over thinking, driving yourself crazy­ these are all of the unfortunate things that can happen if you let social media take too big of a role in your dating life.

Don't even try to kid yourself, you know damn well you are guilty of all of the above at some degree or another. And it usually always ends in unnecessary anxiety and fights over nothing.

And more than likely, you have a favorite social media app you like to use to creep on your girlfriend, boyfriend, hookup buddy or crush.

You all need to stop this freaking nonsense. Don't get me wrong, I admit it: I used to be a social media creep myself in previous casual dating situations. Fortunately, I have been clean for about a year now.

I'm here to help you end this pathetic way of life, one social media outlet at a time. Start this new journey or remain losers forever. (Sorry, too harsh?)

Stop being a Snapchat Troll.

It's a Thursday night; you had to stay in because of your 8am work shift (fuck you, right?) but your bae is out on the town with their dudes, girlfriends, or just plain randoms.

You take a little gander at the stories posted on your Snapchat feed and watch your boyfriend's friend, Danny's snap story.

You think you see your boyfriend in the background talking to a girl. You think to yourself, "Oh hell no is that the hooker Jamie from Delta Gamma?!" (In all reality it's so blurry those two people could be anyone.)

You start feeling hot with anger and bitterness. Now you're doomed.

From that point on, you watch anyone's stories who you think might be with him or at the same bar. You replay it - analyzing the background.

You call them a million times. You pick a fight for no reason and then can't even admit you were Snapchat stalking because you'll look like a weirdo.

Honestly, if you have so little faith in your relationship that you have to keep tabs through Snapchat stories: you've got a bigger issue my friend. (Some girl is calling her boyfriend right this second to "have a talk" after reading that sentence.)

Not only that, but now you have major FOMO (fear of missing out.)

So what do you do? Don't check stories if you're staying in and they're not. Enjoy your alone time and don't ruin it by getting a play-by-play of their more fun night.

And honestly, if they do something sketch in a story you bet your butt at least 5 of your homies are going to tell you before you even need to watch it.

I would go into Snapchat best friends but now that's a thing of the past, liberating guys and torturing women every-fucking-where.

Stop being an Instagram weirdo.

Oh my god, I swear, listening to girls complain about their boyfriend's activity on Instagram is some of the funniest stuff I've ever witnessed.

"OMG Chris started following that one super slutty girl Kayla: you know, the one who posts pictures in her thong bikini like every day."

Or, "Jason just liked Jill's picture. Do you think that means something? She has way bigger boobs than me."

I'm sorry to break it to you girls, but boys will be boys: there's nothing you can do about it. So let them follow a slutty girl and get some eye candy - it doesn't mean anything. Get over it.

Also, stop caring about which girls like your man's Instagram pictures! Honestly, what difference does it make, an Instagram like is not equivalent to wanting to hookup. Relax.

You need to have more confidence than that. You get worked up over nothing then start creating such irrational scenarios in your head.

Then you get pissy with your boyfriend, and he has no clue what the heck is going on because you don't want to admit you cyberstalk him.

Stop worrying about Facebook messaging: because who does that anymore?

I think the only person who still Facebook messages me is my 76-year-old grandmother who can't figure out texting.

So I don't understand why so many people get crazy about wanting each other's passwords to look at their bae's conversations.

If your boyfriend or girlfriend is spitting game via Facebook, you should break up with them solely because they're clearly an insignificant loser. Point blank.

I wish this weren't a thing: but stop caring about your bae's cyber game opponent. Some of you are really embarrassed or laughing with me.

Yes, I have witnessed multiple times where girls get extremely agitated about who their boyfriend play Words With Friends with, Trivia Crack, etc.

I don't even have any advice for you weirdos except get a life.

Don't let Social Media make or break your opinion of a crush/ hookup buddy.

This happens way too much, especially with girls. You start crushing on a guy, or hookup with someone new and your very first instinct is to cyberstalk.

In case you haven't already figured this out: guys are not exactly good at social media.

What I mean by that is they don't really understand which pictures they look good in/ don't look good in (lol) or won't even post a picture for like 22 weeks.

More times than not, they're way better looking in person. So don't let your impression of their Instagram or Facebook turn you off.

The bottom line is, social media has given us way too many ways opportunities to create issues within our love life. Take control over this situation, it can be as simple as logging out.

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